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GAIA OF THE 9th – 31/10/2004
RELATIONSHIPS


You will take note that many beings on this Earth at this time are not in a relationship of their heart. Furthermore, many beings on Earth need / require / must have a relationship so that they feel fulfilled in themselves. Why do so many feel unfulfilled in their relationships? First they must have a relationship with themselves. Everything that they require in a relationship with others that makes them feel whole, happy, centred, must really come from themselves before they project it onto others. So, if you are not in a relationship at this time, you must be in a relationship with yourself. Everything that you require from another must first be given to yourself from yourself. And only until then, will you be having a relationship with another.

Here we are talking about relationships of the heart, intimate relationships, marriages, friends, family, soulmates. First all these energies must be given to themselves before they will receive it from another. If they do not do this they will not have a relationship - they will not have the type of relationship that they crave from their soul in this reality. Once they have given this to themselves, then they are ready for a relationship with others such as intimacy, loving, family, friends, lovers, etc. And most especially, to include Gaia.

It is time to have a relationship with Gaia. Gaia will return this relationship to you. What you put in you will get out. So once you have a relationship with yourself, then others, it is then time to incorporate Gaia. Gaia may even come first before your relationship with others. It depends on you and your purpose on this Earth. Some people’s purpose is to be purely connected to Gaia and therefore may not have a relationship with others. Are you one of them? You will know this by going into the purity of your spiritual heart, and answering the question there. First you feel the question and the answer will be there. Sometimes your journey is to first serve Gaia before you are to continue your journey into relationships.

There are some beings who have pinpoints of light and who are specific for this purpose, and it is those that will have an interrupted journey in relationships until they complete their commitment to Gaia first. Either consciously or unconsciously, they work on their missions. We love and support these beings especially, as well as all on this Earth, to reach the best frequency they can hold in their day to day life. Each day will be different and a slightly, slightly different frequency, but increasing all the time.

Most beings are finding this difficult and insist on wallowing in their pain and selfishness. We ask these beings to look at the higher picture and realise and accept their purpose and mission on this Earth. To do so is to ask us in meditation, and we can assist if required and asked, so that you may then get on with your own journey, and any delayment in your relationships with others. Do not forget first you must complete and honour your relationship with Your Self. If you are stuck we can help. You have but to ask. Once you have asked then we become one with you, and then allow us to help you. It is ok to ask and is important to ask, yet if you do not allow us to help, we cannot do so.


GETTING PRACTICAL

One develops a relationship with themselves by honouring their needs, their desires, their intellect, their morals, themselves, their bodies, their physicality, their emotional needs, etc. Honouring is accepting all this with unconditional love. If there is anything in the above that they do not ‘like’, then change it with love, acceptance, compassion, kindness. What we are asking you to do is to not judge yourself but accept what you have that you consider unlikeable, change what you can with ease and grace (you do not have to go into a huge decline with this). Change what you can and learn to love the rest, unconditionally.

Love your darkness and love your light. By loving and accepting your darkness and your light, it is only from this space that you can change it.